Exciting News!

As graduation is rapidly approaching, Jud has been job searching. Understandably, we have wanted to stay in the same area; free babysitters and keeping our comfort zone and day to day routine. But God has other plans for us! Jud received two job offers. One at a local company in Montgomery and one at Honda, which is about two hours north of us. After praying and looking over his offer sheet, we have made decision to pack up and fly north! We are saddened to leave our family, friends, and church, but we believe we are following where God is calling us to go.

We fell in love with the Homewood area. We knew we had to live there, this is the place we wish to raise Patton. We viewed over 15 apartments and ended up finding a winner. Apartment shopping is not as fun at you would think. It's very stressful. Too expensive, bad location, too far, weird neighbors, not enough bedrooms.  On our second trip up in search of an apartment, I was online trying to find more places we could visit. I found a town home for rent and immediately called the real estate company to ask for a last minute appointment. She explained to me that they have no openings for an appointment,  as I thanked her and got ready to hang up the phone, she paused and asked if I would be open to a group showing, because she had an appointment to show a three bedroom town home in two hours. I accepted the offer and happily awaited the appointment.

I ended up knowing the other two people interested in the town home and instantly could tell they were desperate for this place! Yikes! We viewed the space as Jud and I were silently swooning. Just my style. It was full of natural lighting, an older apartment but renovated, two story but still warm and cozy, plenty of storage. Inviting! The other two people also loved it. The agent explained to us that this was the only three bedroom town home becoming available in our time frame and the other viewers explained to her they were interested and would be by the office today to sign a lease.. after they ran some errands.

Jud, we have looked at TOO many apartments and none of them checked off as many boxes as this place, I exclaimed. He agreed and logically said we needed to sleep on it and would wait to sign the lease on Monday if we were still interested. He confidently said the guys were just some college boys and would postpone signing the lease until last minute. I understood him, but at the same time, I had a strong feeling that the guys would snag it up by the end of the day. We had another appointment later that evening with the same rental company. We did not get the same feeling at this rental, as we did the last. Every other apartment just didn't meet our standards anymore. We then asked the agent if the boys had signed the lease yet. She said not yet, but she knew they were in a bind for a place due to an ending lease.

We talked and talked and talked and Jud and I made an executive decision that we were ready to sign the lease to the town home we had viewed earlier in the day. That was the place for us! We drove down the their office to sign the lease, we began the process and low and behold one of the guys walked in, shot us a glance and muttered "Heyy guys" with a tone that screamed "y'all are signing my lease aren't ya'll." Sorry buddy.

So early June, we will be all packed up and ready to move! It's bitter sweet. We hate that we are leaving everyone behind, but find comfort in the fact we are only an hour away!

We both are itching with excitement and can not wait to be in the Homewood area! So many new adventures will be held in this new home of ours. Bring it on future, we are ready for you!

Reflecting Back

In college, I cared more about my hair, if my makeup looked good, was my tan dark enough, was my outfit trendy enough, and how skinny I was compared to other girls. Those were the important things. Those things get you somewhere. Those things define you, right? Wrong.

I spent time obsessing over them. 

Then I got pregnant. With pregnancy came extra weight. With pregnancy came losing my tan skin. Not fitting into my trendy clothes. Losing sleep, and being so tired that i didn't care if i had on a full face of makeup or perfectly curled and teased hair. Losing all these things that defined who I was. 

Then comes the baby. Someone you are constantly caring for and wondering does he have everything he needs? I found myself worrying about my own needs less and less. Have I even showered today? Who cares, I'll try to get one next time Patton takes a 10 minute nap. 

Its demanding. People don't give us moms enough respect. When can feed, change a dirty diaper, and use a nose frida all at the same time. We miss showers, skips meals, and don't even realize it because we have been caring for someone far more important than ourselves. After a day full of screaming car rides, difficult grocery trips, trying to get the baby food stain out of an outfit that is far nicer than anything in my own closet, and trying to sooth a crying baby fighting sleep harder than you could've ever thought, we still are ready for the next obstacle. What fuels us? All the love.

So anyway, there I sat, tangled dull hair, wearing yesterdays makeup, or was it the day before yesterdays? Coffee breath, wearing an oversized shirt covered with dried spit up stains. & guess what, I didn't care a bit. 

I sat there thinking of how ridiculously silly it was for me to care SO much about my hair, or makeup, or whatever mattered so much before. Those things don't define a woman. Those things literally don't get you anywhere. Thats just an outside appearance for others to look at. Those things won't change the world. They don't make a difference in anyones life. Not even mine. They didn't even contribute to my own happiness, the obsessing over them just stressed me out.

I thought I knew myself then, but there wasn't even much to know. I'm not saying there was nothing underneath the fresh highlights, makeup, and nice clothes. There definitely was. There was something much deeper under them, that i just hadn't tapped into yet. I hadn't found myself yet.

Some say they lose themselves after a kid. They forget who they are due to lack of time on their own. But I had found myself. 

Having a kid does take away personal time, I am not denying that. But having Patton made me focus less on all of the outside appearance aspects and more on the inside part. I have found so much time to work on my inner self, finding new interests that came with finding hobbies I really enjoyed, and most importantly, to develop a deeper relationship with Christ. Did I have The Blue Doors new arrivals getting shipped to my house and Mac makeups newest line of cosmetics, no, but was I better person, YES!

After having Patton, I have way less time to read, but I read my bible WAY more than I ever did before. I care and pray more for people in need. My heart feels pain much deeper and love more stronger. I can't complain about that.

I have found new interests. Interest in plants. I bought some to grow. I have a new interest in health, and have cut out things that harm my body (well, some. Baby steps, right haha). I buy my fruits and veggies from local farmers markets. I have new interests in home decor and finding odd things or empty spaces and making them beautiful or finding a purpose for them. I enjoy taking hikes. I also like taking pictures with my Nikon d3300. Those things reduce my stress and increase my happiness. They make me a happier, fuller me.

With a fuller me, comes and fuller life. A life less consumed with self appearance and a heart filled with more love. A chubby smiling baby at felts my heart over and over again with every glance. A better relationship with Christ and family I had taken for granted. & a new church family.

Sometimes it's overwhelming to not get me time. To not get time to fix my hair and makeup, put on my clothes that don't have a trace of spit up on them. To not get to feel the best about myself on the outside. That sounds funny, but I am woman and those are a few things at just make some of us feel good, which is important. But I have grown contempt with that.

Babies don't take your time away, they just cause you to only make time for the things that are important to you. They filter out all of things you don't need to fit in time for things that truly matter and contribute to your happiness. 

Signing off with messy hair, unmanicured nails, and a full heart,

Alex.

TSFH IOTW December 29

Our vintage picnic basket is up for item of the week now! Come on by to booth D490 to make it yours at 10% off!

If you like our item of the week but aren't interested in purchasing, here are some other cool finds from our booth. From rolling pics, to scales, antique tackle boxes, to vanities, we'e got something for you here!

Coffee Cart

With coffee bars being all the rage these days, I had much inspiration behind this project! I love love love coffee, and a space in my house devoted just to coffee just sounded perfect to me! I had been searching for the perfect table to convert into a coffee bar; when I made my moms coffee bar, I used her grandmothers old sewing machine, so I really wanted something a little different like that. Well, I never got lucky enough to find the perfect piece of furniture, but as I was strolling through one of my favorite picking spots, I saw this cart! Uhm how stink in cute right!!!!

It was priced very reasonable so I snatched it up. 

It folds down for easy storage and pops back up so use! Look how perfect of a role it plays as a "coffee cart" in my home!

& check out my "Toms" rack as my coffee mug holder! Love!

Decking the Halls at the Speckled FH

I haven't blogged any decor in my actual home in a very long time. Having a baby can put a lot of things on pause, but whenever I have a little extra time on my hands, I plan to share some of my creations with y'all! Not that they're anything special, I just enjoy it! Two weeks ago, my mom, step dad, Patton, and myself road tripped down to L.A (Lower Alabama) to visit my aunt (who also loves to go picking.) So could you guess what we did for entertainment? We went picking of course!! And boy did I score!! I added some of my finds for christmas decor in my house (:

An old sign, two scales, and a rusty square clock.

We plan on putting the shrimp scale in the booth, but I am keeping the other scale for myself (:

                                                   ... I have an eye for old scales, can you tell? - they are fun when you're            not standing on them.

So I obviously didn't incorporate the shrimp scale, or rusty square clock in my christmas decor, but here are a few things I did do with the space:

I had no stocking handers so I had to get creative, the left stocking is hung by an antler I had laying around.

I had no Christmas skirt, so I bought a flannel (drool) fleece blanket in the $3 section of Target to wrap around the tree.

I of course used my new old sign at the top of my hutch to bring out some red!

I used my old scale and old family coffee grinder to give more of a vintage look.

& I fell in love with the set up on my red stool. Rusty cans are kind of my thing. Pop a christmas tree on top and it's suddenly festive. 

50% off all Christmas Items!

Still not finished decorating for the holidays or just like to catch sales and save decor for next years christmas? As of yesterday, all christmas items in booth 490 will be 50% off!

November 17-24 IOTW

There were many many new items added to the booth this past weekend! we have started to incorporate some christmas decor as you can see (: Come find some decorations to brighten up your home for the holidays!

This weeks IOTW is this rusty step stool!

I believe it is marked $15. You will also receive 10% off of that price since it is the item of the week until November 24th (: